What is life ? – a short poem

 

 

 

What is life ?

A reality or an actress in disguise?

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Some complains that it is not easy,

Everything has a price.

But I had the opportunity,

Not to live it once, but twice.

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Now when I spend time with my family,

I get to know what true love is.

I was stupid and may be childish,

To find it in someone else, who doesn’t even exist!

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The power of love is limitless.

That I witnessed while fighting a disease on my deathbed.

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I saw my parents crying.

They were worried.

They were eating but not food,

It was the fear, not the food.

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With every smile they ate that fear.

The fear they had of losing me.

I was just seventeen, when I saw it coming.

Trust me!

The death is very cunning.

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It shows you a better world,

Full of joy & peace.

Where there is no pain or disease.

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Then, when I was having blackouts,

The death asked me to let go.

I was almost ready to leave.

To leave the hope, and quit trying.

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Then I sensed a hand on my forehead.

The warmth of that sensation, the feeling I can’t describe.

Because miracles can’t be rationalised.

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They are beautiful wonders of the world.

They all generate from a mother’s love.

When I was about to let go,

It was my mother who brought me back.

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The smile on her face whenever I opened my eyes,

The sound of her weeping behind the doors.

They all became my strength to fight the death,

And to see through it’s hoax.

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It’s been 5 years since the incident took place,

The same September has come again.

I went through a lot of change,

But what remains unchanged is my mother’s love.

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Life is not what you live once,

Life is what you live everyday.

Not with the people you love,

But with the people who love you.

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I am truly blessed, not because I have someone who loves me.

I am blessed because I know & appreciate it.

You all have parents & your siblings.

There is always someone who loves you.

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All you need to do is appreciate their love.

Life would be easy if you do.

Challenges would remain the same.

But what will become more fun, is the game.

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The game of living, caring & giving.

Learn form the nature to be selfless.

If you can’t then you are already dead.

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Because life is not what you live once,

Life is what you live everyday.

 

– HARSH SIROHI

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” When I loved an aviatrix “

 

She was beautiful and a woman of grace,

I could always find her near the airbase.

Yes, she was an aviatrix.

I wanted to talk to her but she could see through all my tricks.

 

One day finally she agreed on meeting,

The moment I saw her, my heart stopped beating.

She was wearing a red dress,

Obviously I was impressed.

Mesmerising were the glittering bellies in her feet,

I came prepared & dressed up, to look smart and neat.

She came and whispered in my ears,

Impress me today and I shall be yours.

 

The date went fine,

We had some wine.

We danced for a while,

Oh God ! Her smile.

 

After the date, I dropped her home.

She insisted that I should come along.

It was eve and we kept on talking,

Her neighbourhood friends were shocked,

Because it was then almost morning.

 

She left me because of her work pressure.

Said she,  I would find girls who would be far better.

Who would tell her , I don’t need better.

It was just her now it doesn’t matter.

 

Your eyes were magical,

Thought it was make up & facial.

But little did I know,

The eyes captivated me the moment we met,

I said Yes but you said No.

 

Remember the night after the date at your home ?

It was the same like the high school prom.

But do you still think about that night lately ?

I surely have, still do and will keep on doing till eternity.

 

That late night talk with Marlboro clove,

I can’t remember a single word of it though.

All I remember is you sitting on the bed while I was on chair,

Hey wait I now remember, you complimented me for my hair.

 

Your neighbourhood friends must have thought,

that we were having some action.

But who will tell those fools, sitting by your side,

talking whole night looking in your eyes was the real pleasure.

 

You told me you knew karate so I better watch myself.

But it was the charm, the fragrance of your soul which forced me to let go.

You asked to watch,

All I could watch, was how adorable you looked while those eyes closed.

 

It was dark, It was cold.

Nothing was intentional,

Believe me darling,

I was’t even bold.

 

How could I touch you knowingly ?

It was the chilling breeze which forced us to hug passionately.

But the moment we hugged, we generated some spark,

The cuddling was enough to make you laugh.

 

I am glad we shared the room that night,

My future might be dull, but my love is bright.

Doesn’t matter what you think whether you have any clue,

My lady let me tell you, I still love you.

 

When I saw you for the first time,

My heart started beating so fast.

At that very moment I knew,

My love for you would last.

Not for short but for very long,

It’s raining here, I wish you were along.

 

Why do I have to tell you ? Why am I doing this ?

I already did, if you still have our last pic.

I am not lonely , trust me darling,

Till my last breath, I will be shinning.

Like a star but not at night,

I will be shinning in the bright light.

 

You went because you had work,

You had to get trained.

I am sure the flights are beautiful,

But not more than the rain.

 

Some love stories are never meant to be successful,

But people still fall in love and do extreme.

At the end it’s all about,

How can it be peaceful … to live this dream.

I think about us and I do get sad,

I always thought my lass that I was your lad.

I have decided to be happy and safe.

Our love should be our strength,

Thats all I care and want to face.

 

So don’t worry about me being lonely and sad,

You are always there with me every night on my bed.

Love was never about the physical presence,

But the aura of the beloved, her essence.

 

People ask me, why can’t I get over her ?

They say,  life is big and I should give someone else a chance.

I should live free, sing crazily and dance.

But It still doesn’t matter what they think,

whether they have any clue,

Yes I loved an aviatrix and believe it or not,

I still love you.

 

Harsh Sirohi
Author,

The Hypocrite World

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Harsh Sirohi is a Blogger, Social Service Activist, Businessman, Entrepreneur and a Dreamer who strongly believes in the power of Optimism and Commencement. He is an organization builder & a strong leader, known for his voluntary and humanitarian work for the society at South Asia level. The Blog on his website will take you to the realities of The Hypocrite World. The alarming issues , the social responsibility , the power of being a Human Being.

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” I was a liar “

 

” I was a liar ”    – by Harsh Sirohi

 

You were the first to blow my mind away.

The locks of your hair got my heart slayed.

I went to school religiously, without a single leave.

Just to see you everyday, would you have believed  ?

 

I would have looked at you , if I got any chance.

I couldn’t look but it was like a trance.

Your exquisite walk down the class aisle.

Your essence near around always made me smile.

 

My heart stopped whenever you smiled.

But you didn’t know how adorable was your smile.

Shit ! Why this heart was so fragile.

When it broke , the sound went to miles.

 

Your curves were great,

But magical were the eyes.

You came in my dreams every night.

Wasn’t it nice ?

 

Thought your eyes were real beauty , agreed ?

Sigh ! You were so erudite in deceiving.

But wait ! I couldn’t believe it in the beginning.

Beauty wasn’t the eyes, but the heart indeed.

 

I always believed, I was your Mickey ,

And you were my Minnie.

A movie would have been made on us,

Himself, by the great Walt Disney.

 

But happy endings are in movies only.

It’s a delusion my friend !

In the real world we live in.

Its nothing but a melancholy.

 

I wouldn’t be thinking about you  !

But what can I do ….

It’s been eight years since ,

I first saw you.

 

I didn’t know the silly girl with an attitude,

would fall in love with someone true.

But, I was a liar when I told you we were just friends.

If I would have been true ……

You would have left everything for me ….

But how could I be so selfish, I had to lie !

It’s agonising that you never dared to try.

If you did, you would know

I was  a liar because I loved you.

 

 

Harsh Sirohi
Author,

The Hypocrite World

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Harsh Sirohi is a Blogger, Social Service Activist, Businessman, Entrepreneur and a Dreamer who strongly believes in the power of Optimism and Commencement. He is an organization builder & a strong leader, known for his voluntary and humanitarian work for the society at South Asia level. The Blog on his website will take you to the realities of The Hypocrite World. The alarming issues , the social responsibility , the power of being a Human Being.

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Transgender, a taboo in India ?

Greetings Readers,

First of all I apologise for writing after so long. The good news is, I am writing my first novel but that is why I don’t get enough time to write the articles so often. But here I am.

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We live in a world where men and women are considered equal. Where they are doing miracles, achieving extraordinary goals.

But still there is a part of society or I must say nature, which is not doing as great as the men and women. The ” TRANSGENDER “. They are considered improper for the society.

So is transgender a taboo ?

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Transgender people are people who experience a mismatch between their gender identity or gender expression, and their assigned sex. Transgender is also an umbrella term which can include people whose gender identity is the opposite of their assigned sex (trans men and trans women), as well as people who are neither exclusively masculine nor exclusively feminine (e.g. people who are genderqueer, bigender, pangender, genderfluid, or agender).Transgender people are sometimes called transsexual if they desire medical assistance to transition. Other definitions of transgender include third-gender people as transgender or conceptualize transgender people as a third gender and infrequently the term is defined very broadly to include cross-dressers.

 

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It doesn’t matter what people define them to be. But for me, they are human beings.

According to Census 2011 ,

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Indian Census had never recognized third gender i.e. Transgender while collecting census data for years. But in 2011, data of Transgender’s were collected with details related to their employment, Literacy and Caste. In India, total population of transgender is around 4.88 Lakh as per 2011 census. The data of Transgender has been cubbed inside “Males” in the primary data released by Census Department. For educational purpose, separate data of Transgender has been curved out from that.

 

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and the list goes on.  While transgender activists estimate the numbers to be six to seven times higher.

In 2014, the Supreme Court of India legally recognised the transgender community as the “Third Gender”. Prior to the verdict, transgender people were treated as objects of ridicule, prejudice and humiliation who were not only denied their basic human rights but also not recognized as citizens of India. They are also a community negatively stereotyped as eking out a living from begging and commercial sex work.

In India there are a host of socio – cultural groups of transgender people like hijras/ kinnars, and other transgender identities like – shiv-shaktis, jogtas, jogappas, Aradhis, Sakhi, etc. However, these socio-cultural groups are not the only transgender people, but there may be those who do not belong to any of the groups but are transgender persons individually. Though an accurate and reliable estimate of transgender people is not available, it cannot be denied that their number is miniscule compared with the total population of the country.

The transgender community, generally known as “Hijras” in this country, are a section of Indian citizens who are treated by Society as unnaturals and generally as objects of ridicule and even fear on account of superstition. All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and ought to be entitled to enjoyment of human rights without discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. Everyone is entitled to equality before the law and equal protection of the law without any such discrimination. Transgenders are also part of society and have equal, rights as are available to other persons. The discrimination based on their class and gender makes the transgender community one of the most disempowered and deprived groups in Indian society.

 

Despite of the fact that transgender is a third gender in India. Still a lot of problems are being faced by transgenders in their day-to-day life ie. discrimination, lack of educational facilities, unemployment, lack of shelter, lack of medical facilities like HIV care and hygiene, depression, hormone pill abuse, tobacco and alcohol abuse and problems relating to marriage, property, adoption.

You know why ? Not because of government. But because of us. We haven’t accepted them as a part of society till yet. We still get afraid when we see them at traffic signals asking for money in exchange of blessings. We fear, if we don’t give them money, they will put a curse on us. Why !

 

Why do we get uncomfortable whenever we see a transgender ? They are as much human being as we are.

 

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But somewhere, the transgender people are also at fault. They are insecure about their identity. They are not proud of themselves. The nature has created us all in a unique way. We should take pride in that.

My latest sketch will demonstrate the conundrum regarding transgender in our Indian society.

 

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We all are beautiful. We all are proud to have this amazing life. Like this wolf, which is beautiful, bold, aggressive yet patient at the same time. It knows, how to love, how to protect, how to attack. But it is chained. The chains of insecurity, lack of social identity, discrimination, low self esteem have seized the beautiful wolf to express itself.

The wolf is a metaphor for transgender here. You all are beautiful. Break all the chains and free yourself from the orthodox lifestyle. You are not meant to live an inexorable or prewritten lifestyle like a witless ritual. You are meant to write your own destiny and live your life in an extraordinary way to change this world and make it a better place to live in.

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I would request everyone to stop following the discriminative trends set up by this hypocrite world.

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” Transgender is not a taboo. So stop making it one. “

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I can only URGE ! The power is in your hands, the change starts with you. YOU ARE THE CHANGE.
When you will become a change , you will change the world for a better place to live in.
Its a long journey but every journey starts with one step.
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Aim to protect the transgender.
Act within time and when needed to say no discrimination to them.

Achieve the happiness.

AIM , ACT , ACHIEVE

Share this article as much as possible and take a pledge to protect the transgender from social injustice and discrimination.

Harsh Sirohi
Author,
The Hypocrite World

 

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Harsh Sirohi is a Blogger, Social Service Activist, Businessman, Entrepreneur and a Dreamer who strongly believes in the power of Optimism and Commencement. He is an organization builder & a strong leader, known for his voluntary and humanitarian work for the society at South Asia level. The Blog on his website will take you to the realities of The Hypocrite World. The alarming issues , the social responsibility , the power of being a Human Being.

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Dowry – a villainous still exists

Greetings Readers,

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We live in a world where science is doing miracles, people are doing extraordinary and nature is doing incredible things, well nature has always done incredible things since the beginning.

But still a lot of evil practices prevail in the world. The most traumatising fact about these practices is that they are not practices anymore , they have become our life styles , they have become us.

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One such practice is Dowry.


” A dowry is a transfer of parental property at the marriage of a daughter. Dowry contrasts with the related concepts of bride price and dower “
But according to me DOWRY only means a system to destroy marriages.
Well, there are two type of people in INDIA , one who demand for DOWRY and one who don’t demand for dowry. Right ?
WRONG !!
As I said , dowry is no more a practice , it has got so much into our lives that it has become us.
So whether you demand it or not , still its in the practice. In India , we see and attend a lot of marriages and we often see in our family, how ceremonies are done and a lot of cash and other expensive gifts are given to the bridegroom and to his family members.
Because it is how we celebrate the marriage and ceremonies.
People who demand for dowry are the worst, they harass the bride sexually, mentally, physically and torture her to bring money, expensive gifts, property and valuables from her family for them.
One woman dies every hour due to dowry related reasons on an average in the country, which has seen a steady rise in such cases between 2007 and 2011, according to official data.
National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) figures state that 8,233 dowry deaths were reported in 2012 from various states. The statistics work out to one death per hour.
The number of deaths under this category of crime against women were 8,618 in 2011 but the overall conviction rate was 35.8 per cent, slightly above the 32 per cent conviction rate recorded in the latest data for 2012.
The NCRB statistics show that 91,202 dowry deaths were reported in the country from January 1, 2001 to December 31 2012.
A State wise break-up provided in the statistics show that the highest incidence of dowry deaths was in Uttar Pradesh and Bihar. During the period, 23,824 dowry deaths were reported in U.P. and 19,702 sent for trial. In Bihar 13,548 cases were reported during the period and 9,984 sent for trial.
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In general, the custom of dowry imposes a financial burden upon families with daughters that can be especially heavy when the family has few or no sons who might themselves attract wives with dowries.Dowry had disappeared from most of Europe by the beginning of the twentieth century, but remains a common practice in south Asia, specially India.
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In India, marriage is a bond between two families , not just two souls. Thats what we have heard and we believe, WRONG !
A marriage is supposed to be a bond between two souls only. But due to socio-cultural reasons we are forced to think that way. We often seek the marriage to happen between the same status.
Financially, socially and even CASTE !
But seriously , CASTE ? Why people are so bothered about caste or money ! This is why Inter caste marriages in most parts of the India is still a dream. Such a hypocrite society to live in.
We see a lot of politicians speaking about poverty, development, security. But why no one is talking about dowry. We talk about educating people , as education is the key to eliminate and eradicate every demonic practices.
But mostly the educated people are concerned about their social status. This is the segment of the society which doesn’t think about taking dowry but still it is practiced.
Why every parent of a daughter thinks about marriage as a burden to their pockets , why it is always a concern to think about getting a lot of things done in a marriage to match the status of others in the society.
All the expenses of the marriage and its functions should be take care of by the 2 partners. They are getting married , they must do it, no one else. Spend and make arrangements according to your pocket and savings. You don’t need to show others how was your marriage. Its is not theirs , but yours. The closed friends and family members must be a part of it , but the families shouldn’t be forced to bear any financial obligations.
The marriage is for getting united , not to show people that you have money or you can spend it on your children.
We specially the Males, who are young and educated need to take an oath that we don’t ask from our future wife or her family members to bear any cost of marriage or the ceremonies. You and her will sit, discuss and plan your wedding and only you two will bear the expenses.
Lets not make marriage a business or deal. It is meant to be a sacred way of getting two should united for lifetime.

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ay No to Dowry.
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Books can be written about dowry; a blog is simply too short. But isn’t it time we got young people angry again? Most of the people and social service activists who’ve fought for decades are tired. We need young blood to use the internet to restart the campaigns.

 

I can only URGE ! The power is in your hands, the change starts with you. YOU ARE THE CHANGE.
When you will become a change , you will change the world for a better place to live in.
Its a long journey but every journey starts with one step.

 

Aim to Protect your future wife

Act within time and when needed to say no to dowry

Achieve the safety, happiness of your beloved and a prosperous happy married life.

AIM , ACT , ACHIEVE

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Harsh Sirohi
Author,
The Hypocrite World

 

 

Licence to commit crime ?? – The Juvenile Act @India – Think Again

Greetings Readers,

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We live in a world where a lot of species prevail and the most abhorrent and sordid among them are the rapists & murderers.

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Recently, one of the convicts was set free, who was the only minor among those who were found guilty in the Delhi Rape case ( 16th December 2012 ).

News channels have started their common praxis of debating into finding who is onus for this. Every channel gets into the rat race to showcase debate and their conclusions.

But, who has suffered ?

Is it the girl who got raped ? Well yes she was the acute sufferer and may her soul rest in peace. But she was not alone, everyday in world , women are getting raped. It is more alarming than Global Warming. What will you do if the social environment is not safe despite of living in a smart city ?

But who is at fault ?

The government ?

Yes it is undoubtedly. If the Juvenile act would have been amended near around 2005 when there was an alarming increase in the criminals falling in  the age group of 16-18. WRONG !

The Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2000 is the primary legal framework for juvenile justice in India. The act provides for a special approach towards the prevention and treatment of juvenile delinquency and provides a framework for the protection, treatment and rehabilitation of children in the purview of the juvenile justice system. This law, brought in compliance of the 1989 UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC), repealed the earlier Juvenile Justice Act of 1986 after India signed and ratified the UNCRC in 1992. This act has been further amended in 2006 and 2010. The Government of India is once again contemplating bringing further amendments and a review committee has been constituted by Ministry of Women and Child Development which is reviewing the existing legislation

Yes the JJA has been amended a couple of times, but still the rape cases went on increasing. Everywhere in news, they are making Rajya Sabha guilty of not amending the JJA earlier with new firm punishments and exceptions.

The thing is, we as Humans are very shallow from inside, we only see what we want to see and hear what is pleasant to our ears.

No doubt , Government is at fault. It has not been effective in establishing new courts. There is a never ending list of cases which is pending from decades. In India, most of the cases get their final verdict after the people who are involved have already died a long time ago.

Oh, ya right. Now you will start blaming the Delhi Police. Of course, you must. Somewhere, they have been incompetent in protecting us. WRONG !

They are trying their level best to make the environment safe for you all to live in. Atleast 70% of the department is. There are only 85000 policemen, out of those 45000 are assigned to protect the VIPS. So only 40,000 Policemen to protect 18,248,290 people of Delhi. ie. One Delhi Policeman is protecting 456 Delhiites.

This is why the crimes are inclining so rapidly as we have lack of defence forces. Again WRONG !
We have all the defence we need. ” WE “. Why we need to depend on our police system to protect us. Yes it is their moral duty to safeguard the citizens and their property and getting criminals to trials in courts, and they are trying hard to fulfil it.

Its not the Juvenile Justice Act which is giving a licence to criminals, its WE.

But the QUESTION remains the same ? What is the solution ?

The solution is WE, the youth. If we decide to stop any crime happening near around us. There will be no need of sitting at INDIA GATE for a candle march. Yes, we need to support the victims but primarily we need to stop the crimes. Again it is 456 of us against 1 criminal.

We hope that today the Rajya Sabha will pass the amendments and Juvenile Justice Act will decrease the age from 18 to 16 and make additions to enforce law strictly.

But it is you, who need to buckle up against the crimes. Lets pledge today that We won’t let anyone tease or rape a woman. lets make Delhi a RAPE Free city. It is very challenging but not impossible.

And trust me its far better than watching news and debates over the same thing again & again.

Aim to Protect the women

Act within time and when needed to protect them

Achieve the safety of your loved ones

You and your family will be safe , when Delhi will be safe. So make it.

AIM , ACT , ACHIEVE

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Harsh Sirohi
Author,
The Hypocrite World

 

 

I will marry a non-virgin girl , will you ?

Greetings Readers,

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We live in a world where a lot of species prevail and the most amazing among them are the women.

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They are lovely, caring , beautiful , understanding. They give you the best memories of your lives and the warmest hugs.. They will be always there whenever you need them.

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But deep down , we all have secrets , So do they. They are afraid to share it because they feel people will start judging them. We promise them that we won’t.
So they share their heart out.

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There you go, she has just shared one of the deepest secret she has, She is not a VIRGIN.
Yeah she isn’t.

But why are you feeling like she is going to kill you because she is not a virgin.

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well, trust me. She won’t kill you. Haha !

Now she has trusted you and told you her secret. But hey why have you started ignoring her text ? Oh you must be busy , never mind. Reply whenever you will find time.

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But why does it happen when she tells you that she is not a virgin, People start judging her and most of the men don’t want to get married to them.

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Yes people change. They feel all broken. They don’t feel like trusting anyone anymore.

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“WE” who call ourselves educated are so blindfolded by the Taboo and Orthodox thinking of our society. That we don’t feel comfortable going to a chemist to buy a condom. We don’t feel comfortable in talking about SEX in public.
We judge people on these things. WHY ?

Is having sex a crime ? Is talking about your sexual desires and fantasies a crime ?
Why girls get ready to get married to non-virgin men, but we boys fail to do so.

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No, I won’t let you go.
Everyone has secrets, everyone enjoys their lives. We must not judge anyone on these criteria.

In fact it is an advantage to marry a non-virgin partner.

You guys won’t be making love for the first time in your lives, so you both are experienced now. You won’t feel nervous on your special night.
The bond of trust and friendship you both will develop , will last forever. Because you know each other in and out, there are no secrets left to hide.

All she wants is love not a judgement.

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You give her the love she deserves and longs for. You will be the happiest person in this world. You have her, the most beautiful and important part of your life after your mother.

She will keep you happy forever.

All you need to do is TRUST her, RESPECT her the way she is and most important – LOVE her, make her feel special.

 

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So stand against the odds, stand against the world. What the society thinks, it doesn’t matter , what matters is her. Fight the hypocrite world.
She is worth fighting for, she is worth standing against the world.

If you love her , she is the one. Stop judging her. She will become yours forever.

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YES,  I will marry a non-virgin girl, but will you ?

#Peace #Love

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Harsh Sirohi
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The Hypocrite World

 

 

Worth Dying ?? @Mumbai Local Train

Greetings from The Hypocrite World ,

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Is it worth Dying to board a train ?
Mumbai or New York, it doesn’t matter. What matters, is the lives being claimed by trains or subways in day to day life.

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The sources tell us an average of nine persons lost their lives daily due to accidents, suicides or natural deaths while on the move in suburban Mumbai Railway, the lifeline of the country’s financial capital in 2015.

Yesterday , a young boy , 21 years old lost his life after falling from a running Mumbai local.

Here comes the real question ? Who killed him ?

Was it the public , or the local train or he, himself ?
The ugly truth is they all were equally guilty. I have personally travelled in Mumbai local during my stay in Mumbai. But the alarming issue is the gates . If Mumbai local or our Indian Railways would have closed doors like Delhi Metro, these type of fatal accidents could have been prevented.

Why commuters turned so selfish and ignorant in the video ? He was continuously asking them to shift inside as he was loosing grip. But people were making fun of him and his own friend was making his video.

Wasn’t it his fault ? He could have left the train and could have come in a crowed train but inside not hanging like a pendulum. Or was it a style statement to travel like a PRO. Whatever the reasons are , we can’t neglect the desolate fact that he lost his life and left his family in deep torment.

The same deaths used to happen in Delhi when previous DTC buses used to run. But after Marocpolo buses whose gates get closed have resulted in significant decrement of fatal cases like these.

Our government should also take essential steps to safeguard the commuters from these type of accidents.
But the most important step has to be taken by us. Lets pledge and act sensible.

Never travel in this fashion , risking your life for any reason. Neither let anyone else travel like this. Don’t act as an audience and watch the DEATH  play its course.

ACT  sensible , AIM to save life  , ACHIVE greatness.

#Peace

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The Hypocrite World

 

 

Intolerance Vs Tolerance @INDIA

Greetings from The Hypocrite World ,

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Rise Above #Tolerance and #Intolerance .

I am writing my first blog in deep agony due to the reactions over Tolerance & Intolerance in INDIA.

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There are celebs who are not feeling safe with high security provided to them. There are political parties which are dividing our country over religion & caste. A reward of One Lakh Rupees was announced to slap Aamir Khan.
I mean , seriously ? What is happening to our country.People are dying cos of starvation, terrorists , diseases.
No body is giving a damn about those 35% Indians who are below poverty line, or to those remote areas where people actually don’t know that there is something known as Electricity and Filter Water exist.We live in a world full of hypocrisy. We can watch a girl groaning in acute pain & distress on road for hours after getting raped. But will never teach our generation about Sex Education.
We can go on a candle light march at India Gate, but will never support Rape Victims.
90% rape victims loose their social life after the worst nightmare they can ever get. A student girl victim whose MMS got leaked had to leave the country due to shame because our society didn’t look upto her the same way it used to before the incident.
Why our government feels Banning the Porn Sites is a vital solution ? Rather than banning the politicians who make absurd comments on Women, Religion or on Poor everyday.
Its we , who are at Fault. Yes We.
We are giving them the right to manipulate our minds.
” When a man standing on a road watching the sky , seems crazy to all and When few people start gazing the sky makes sense to us that Oh ! There must be something happening over there “
Don’t let a bunch of politicians or bollywood celebrities or the media to make us think  who we are or what is India.
Search, Read and Learn about Indian Heritage & Indian Civilisation.
Don’t make comments on any religion or at any particular section of our society.
” Right to Speak ” should not be vested till a particular section of the society or organisation.
Right to speak should be vested to the underprivileged also. They should be also heard. The government should make efforts to eradicate poverty, increase security, stop human trafficking, prevent & cure diseases, rather than fighting with other political parties.

So stop the chaos and stop dividing the nation over #Tolerance or #Intolerance.

Work and make efforts to make the World A Better Place To Live In.

#Peace

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The Hypocrite World